Between the Poles:

Building Polarity in Life and Love

Transform Your Relationship to Self or Other in One Weekend

PRICING & REGISTRATION
Learn proven polarity practices that rebuild attraction, deepen emotional safety, and restore playful desire in life and in love — even if you feel stuck, disconnected, or exhausted.

For Couples
You used to feel magnetized toward each other. Now it’s more roommate energy than romance. You want emotional safety, real desire, and the polarity that makes intimacy effortless — but it feels like the spark went missing. If you try to force closeness it backfires, and conversations spiral into criticism and shutting down.

For Singles
Embody the presence, confidence, and energy that draws the right partners to you — without games, chasing, or settling. You’ve read the books, tried the apps, maybe even done the “work”… but the spark just doesn’t last. Either you attract partners who don’t match your energy — or chemistry fades after the first few dates.

It’s not because something’s “wrong” with you. It’s because most dating advice ignores polarity — the energetic magnetism that creates instant attraction and lasting desire. In this workshop, you’ll discover how to embody polarity in your everyday life — so you naturally attract partners who are drawn to your energy, feel safe with your presence, and want to pursue something real.

This isn’t about being “someone you’re not.” It’s about unlocking the natural polarity already within you — through guided practices, daily embodiment, and live group coaching.

Our Promise
In one weekend, you’ll learn simple, repeatable polarity principles that explain and restore masculine/feminine dynamics, clarify sexual and emotional attraction, and give you tools to repair conflict without losing desire. This isn’t theory — it’s embodied practice, daily micro-habits, and partner exercises you can use immediately.

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Starts November Friday, November 14th – Sunday, November 16th

Inside the Relationship Polarity Workshop

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  • Join us Friday, Saturday and Sunday with guided practices, partner exercises, and Q&A.
  • Daily micro-practices to rebuild embodied attraction whether you are single, dating or in a relationship.
  • Communication techniques & repair blueprint to stop escalations and bring curiosity back into tough talks.
  • Embodiment prompts to practice polarity in everyday life.

Bonus: Relationship Polarity Workbook, Cheat Sheets, Aphrodiasics, and Homework Take Aways.

Why This Works

This workshop draws first on Paige’s deep training in tantra, polarity, and embodiment, combined with Peter’s expertise in holistic health and men’s vitality. Together, we blend relationship theory with experiential practices — breathwork, polarity exercises, and simple communication tools — to create fast, lasting shifts in attraction, intimacy, and connection.

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Weekend Outline

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Foundation: Understanding Polarity
Why polarity matters. How masculine/feminine energy shows up (beyond gender). Establish shared goals and safety protocols.

Embodiment & Presence
Embodiment practices that move you out of reactive patterns and into magnetic presence. Micro-practices for daily life.

Safety & Communication
Repair language, consent rituals, and exercises to restore trust and erotic tension without pressure.

Integration & Play
Putting it all together: guided rehearsal, relationship ritual design, and how to keep polarity alive long-term.

BENEFITS

Intimacy
Intimacy is the core of our wellbeing and it impacts every area of our health. For singles, intimacy begins with cultivating a healthy relationship with yourself — learning to feel at home in your own body, empowered in your sexuality, and confident in your presence. For couples, intimacy expands into deeper connection with your partner — through trust, polarity, and shared practices. Whether single or partnered, strengthening intimacy is vital to your overall health and vitality.

Relationship Upgrade
Harnessing this energetic power can improve your performance in every area of life, prevent burnout, and create healthier relationships. For singles, it starts with building an intimate and empowered relationship with yourself — turning self-awareness and self-mastery into a personal superpower. For couples, it means using intimacy and polarity to fuel deeper communication and resolve conflict with presence instead of reactivity. In both cases, this energy becomes a resource you can carry into every part of life.

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What we will do:

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  • Embody principles for long term partners
  • Deepen your inner relationship in order to improve your outer relationship
  • Release past relationship stories and traumas
  • Keep the passion alive in long-term relationships
  • Find the balance of yin and yang
  • Practice Conscious communication
  • Surrender into a more intimate, honest level of commitment
  • Confront repetitive patterns that are hurting the relationship
  • Navigate relationships so they become your greatest teacher through healthy communication, self responsibility and self love

    After this workshop you will be able to:

    • Move from co-existence back to magnetism and desire.
    • Utilize practices to keep polarity alive.
    • Repair arguments without killing attraction.
    • Communicate needs so your partner feels safe and met.
    • Design ongoing rituals that recreate chemistry (not just chores).

    Meet Your Guides

    Paige Pearman - Guide

    Paige Pearman

    Paige is a Clinical Ayurvedic Specialist, Certified Vinyasa and Tantra Teacher, and Integrative Health Coach who has spent over a decade guiding others into deeper harmony of body, mind, and spirit. Her unique path bridges the ancient healing wisdom of Ayurveda, Yoga, Tantra, Christian Mysticism, and Kabbalistic teachings, creating a multidimensional approach to personal transformation.

    She is the founder of HolisTech Wellness Center, where she works as a modern woman biohacker—helping women and men heal naturally by aligning nature’s technologies with the body’s innate intelligence. Her approach blends time-tested practices with cutting-edge integrative methods, offering clients a pathway to sustainable, embodied vitality.

    Her journey began with the study of Ayurveda and Yoga, where she mastered therapies such as Marma, Bliss Therapies, Ayurvedic bodywork, and advanced healing techniques. She expanded her work to include Integrative Health Coaching, supporting clients in creating lasting lifestyle shifts that honor both body and spirit.

    Drawn to the mystery of the energetic body, Paige sought out the path of Tantra to deepen her understanding of feminine energy and subtle life force. With more than ten years of working with energy and embodiment practices, she has discovered that Tantra holds keys to life’s greatest mysteries—particularly in how we love, relate, and create authentic connection.

    Alongside Tantra and Ayurveda, Paige more recently has immersed herself in the contemplative traditions of Christian Mysticism and Kabbalistic wisdom, finding profound bridges between these sacred lineages. Her passion is in weaving these streams together to illuminate the universal truths they share: presence, devotion, transformation, and union with the Divine.

    With warmth, depth, and clarity, Paige creates spaces where participants feel both deeply held and empowered to explore their own inner landscapes. Her work is not only about teaching ancient practices, but also about living them fully—bringing wisdom down from the esoteric into the embodied, everyday sacredness of life.

    Dr. Peter - Guide

    Dr. Peter V. Swanz

    Dr. Swanz is a naturopathic physician, men’s health coach, writer, and stand-up comic. For more than two decades he has helped individuals and couples transform their health and relationships by weaving together holistic medicine, functional fitness, and lifestyle coaching.

    As the creator of Training for the Bedroom, Dr. Swanz inspires men and women to cultivate strength, presence, and polarity — not just in the gym, but in every aspect of life and love. His teaching style blends medical wisdom, real-world humor, and grounded masculine leadership, making complex ideas simple, practical, and engaging.

    Passionate about helping people connect more deeply with themselves and each other, Dr. Swanz leads workshops, retreats, and trainings that invite participants to embody vitality, spark attraction, and create lasting intimacy.

    Pricing & Registration

    Early Bird

    Single $397 | Couple $550

    * Limited to 4 Spots

    General

    Single:$497/ Couple $857

    Pricing Increases on November 1, 2025

    For out of town guests, you can book at BookRetreats.com (provide link)

    What’s included
    Live Workshop, & Workbook

    Seats are intentionally limited to 10 couples to keep the group intimate and give each couple attention.
    Early-bird pricing ends when the first 6 seats are filled.

    Our Guarantee
    If you attend Friday night and aren’t convinced this workshop is for you, we will refund your money.

    FAQs:

    Is this just for heterosexual couples?

    Yes – the workshop teaches polarity as energy patterns, and we are working with biological men and biological women who identify as such.

    I’m single. Is this for me?

    Yes — singles use the workshop to embody polarity so they attract partners who are energetically aligned.

    We are coming from out of town. Are there options for out of town singles or couples?

    Yes – please see our Book Retreats page bookretreats.com

    Starts November Friday, November 14th – Sunday, November 16th